I saw this quote the other day:
People can only see what is in your heart through your actions.
Think about this. What are people seeing with you? Is it the way you want to be? Sometimes we think we are one way, in reality we are not what we imagine ourselves to be. I do think our actions (and words) reflect what is in our hearts.
Challenge: spend some time consciously paying attention to your actions- see what picture you are presenting. Analyze if you want to change or not.